honi thoughts...

Ok, so I’ve been on a mental health break from facebook & twitter & a few other favorite sites for the past couple weeks. I’m really glad I forced myself to take this break. Sometimes it’s necessary to unplug to deal with as well as take care of yourself. If nothing else mental health is just as imortant as emotional and physical health. Taking the time to let go of past hurts, ceasing to blame others for some of those past hurts & taking responsibility for personal actions. Then I realized, the power to make those necessary changes has always been within reach, just not been reached for.

I took this time to do some thinking, praying, & journal writing & it’s been great. I’ve spent so much time worrying & stressing over so much unnecessary stuff for so long that it’s affected me in ways I didn’t even realize until now.

I was given a second chance at life in ‘08 after beating cancer and haven’t done right by that 2nd chance. Now I’m making th necessary changes so that I can be who God made me to be and do what God created me to do.

This clarity view is great!!!

I’ll be back soon…

essenceofjoi:

LADIES: How often do you wash away the make up, take off the eye lash extensions, remove the wig or weave (if you rock them), free yourselves from the spanx, body magic, and girdles….look in the mirrior and say “I’m amazing just the way I am”????

I think I’m safe in saying that we don’t do it often enough. Show that woman up under all the stuff some love too.

We are beautiful just the way we are! Time to take ownership. We own the BS. Why not our natural beauty?

Agreed! Needs to happen more often.
Natural beauty =Awesome beauty!

kendence:

If I knew then what I know now, I wouldn’t change a thing.

It was all a part of the journey to get here.

And I’m right where I should be.  

Amen! I jus said the the same thing…